I don't care, I love it - a photo on Flickriver

            If there's one thing that I've embraced more and more as the years have passed is to not only do what makes me happy, whatever that is to me - the real me -but to really not give a stuff to what other's think or their opinion on it (besides what other's think of me is actually none of my business 😁)

I remember the obligatory teenage holiday with my mates at Butlins in Pwllheli .....
Pissed as a fart, clambering on top of tables to perform the drunken actions to 'superman' - you know the one- 'spray, spray' 😁......and being told it didn't matter I was making a show of myself - everyone was - and i'd never see anyone else again apart from them - and that true me was why they loved me and a bonding memory to share. 

Basically and literally dance like there's nobody watching  (singing on the other hand - really is best when there's nobody there! I think of all the good and happy times I nearly missed out on because though I wanted to be me and go with the flow, have fun, let myself be as wonderfully weird as I am, the thought of other's commenting or judging me did have my ego spending more time and energy on that rather than  what I should be focusing on, me - and now my family and future - while being as happy as possible experiencing these experiences which are just part of life.

Okay so these days my 'rebecca' that doesn't care about what others may judge of her and the ways she goes about obtaining her happiness is less about hangovers and terrible action songs of a certain era - agg a do do do 🍍 and more about being completely oblivious being in peoples way while they're trying to have a nice little stroll in nature - but I've got to be me and do what makes me happy - and anyway whose life is it anyway, not theirs but mine and I'm not giving away my happiness because I might cause a stir or give them something to talk about (or bump into 🙈)
and if they do - let them ❤ stops them gossiping about some other soul 
😁

Taken on: March 22, 2025

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Dibbinsdale Nature Reserve

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Camera: Sony ILCE-7M4, f/18.0, 5 sec, 70mm, ISO 50 (more info) (hide info)

Camera:	Sony ILCE-7M4
Lens:	EF70-300mm f/4-5.6 IS II USM 1.0.8
Aperture:	f/18.0
Exposure Time:	5
Focal Length:	70mm
ISO:	50
Exposure Bias:	0 EV
Flash:	Off, Did not fire
Exposure Program:	Manual
Exposure Mode:	Auto bracket
Metering Mode:	Center-weighted average
White Balance:	Manual
Light Source:	Cloudy
Color Space:	sRGB
Software:	Adobe Photoshop Lightroom Classic 14.2 (Windows)
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